*Encounter four...I had several cancelled dates. I now understood that many of the members of these dating sites are men having fantasies and are not ...really interested in meeting you. The most serious men are men who are definitely gay. They know what they want and there is less chance that they cancel at the last minute like many bi-curious guys do. The next man had a nice picture on his profile; he was a middle aged, openly gay top. As I reached his apartment building he opened the door,. He passed me a tub of petrolium jelly and told me where to put it. I rubbed it all around his anus, as he squirmed with pleasure. He opened a condom and sowly rolled it down my shaft. He then put a dollop of pet. jelly onto the end of my sheathed penis. He said "Go slow at first, your dick is HUGE!".Not knowing what to expect, I walked behind him and he bent over my sofa arm. I aimed my penis at his anus and slowly pushed it in. Sam made a funny half yelp half moan. It was a funny feeling. Like I said, it's his job. Everyone's job has to come first sometimes. You can't tell me that if you did go out with someone, the band wouldn't come before them at times." Well, and there's another thing." Ryan hit her fist on the table. "I want to do this, Lara, you know how much. You know there are times when it's work, band, work, band and not much in between. How fair would that to be a guy? To a relationship? I can't complain that a guy puts sports first, then I go and put the music first.. Just as I turned back around I was startled to see two forms lounging in my path. Before I could react, my arms were seized and my mouth covered as hard as I could struggle, I was still carried into the building and up the stairs to a back apartment. I had not recognized my captures and dismayed that the two of them had seized me so easily. I was thrown on an abandoned mattress and as I got myself together I realized who my assailants were. Daniel was by the window, Charlie was at the door.