You might even call it a form of narcissism, of infatuation with one's own reflection. That particular flavor of lovemaking is cock-centered, and cons...ists of lots of hugging and touching -- leading up to masturbation and the oral bit, sucking and so forth. Ass fucking doesn't necessarily have to be on the itinerary."Now me, on the other hand -- personally, I'm an afficionado of anal. I make like a top when my partner needs that, but lately bottoming has been my game. There's no performance. ..it's just that it's a place I'm comfortable. I have keys, we could go in at night and be alone. And even then, it's just me and Mr. Trotsky, and he's, like, 80. So it'll be private."Just like I'd done while working up the courage to broach the subject, Sebastian now takes a sip of his coffee, working everything over in his mind."I won't have to see any...bodies, will I?" Oh, no! I'll put everything away so it won't be too weird for you." Well, I guess if you do this for me, it's only fair.". Five minutes or so later, I got a surprise I wasn't prepared for.My step-daughter walked out, wearing a bikini that barely covered anything on her 125 pound petite frame.I always knew she had a big chest, seeing her bras in the laundry, hearing her conversations, and seeing her in sports bras on occasion. But seeing her in that? Lord, I was just shocked and left with my mouth wide open.My wife walked out wearing a bathing suit (one-piece) that did nothing to flatter her. But considering her. “Funny, what do you mean, baby? You can tell me after all it’s our secret game.”I smile then and confess, “My private area is all tingly and wet.”He grins, put his arm around me and with a reassuring voice answers, “You are becoming a lady baby. By the way, that private area between your legs is what men call a pussy.”I laugh and gave a big sigh of relief. “I know that silly, I’m just being carefully. You see, I’m not supposed use that word, because momma says it’s not nice to say it.”Grampa.