Come with me. At least then you wont bealone if someone did act negatively."I looked at him carefully, and felt sure he was sincere."Okay. But what ca...n we do about those people on the wall, even if you'reright?" We remember them. But one of the ways we can honor them is by livingour lives without fear. You ready to take the plunge?" He stood andoffered his arm to me.I looked at the tapestry, and then said, "You're.... right." I took hisarm, and we walked out the door."Just so you know, dear. I. First, when talking in the bar, never discuss your sexual encounters with anyone. They are private matters between the participants. Second, when leaving the bar to go have sex with another member, never leave the room together. One person leaves first and the other follows a few minutes later. This is done to keep everyone from knowing your business. I only violated that rule once and that was when I went with Carla and she led me out of the room apparently not caring who saw us leave. ” To say that the task was unnerving for me was an understatement – not so much that it was difficult but being right up next to that part of her body was sexual torture for me.She laughed and said, “Well, you weren’t k**ding – you did it as promised but I don’t think I can handle that all the time…I feel really self conscious.” I repeated something I had said the day earlier about considering just going natural and not worrying about it. She said, “Maybe I will but just remember what you said. " Oh so you're saying women having more trouble losing weight is bull?" Yes, and I'll prove it." Kat vowed. "I'll have Becky in an Arielcostume right alongside me even if I have to learn to sew and make itmyself." Just remember she's not a green recruit and you're not a drillinstructor." Yes mother." Kat smiled at Deb, while wondering if she could find a wayto use the bases obstacle course.Chapter 14"Thanks mom," Kat said as she stepped out of the passenger side of hermother's car. Becky.