There focus needs to be directed to you, and ONLY you. Be verbal,reinforce his behavior. Think of it like this, the dog needs to be walked, the cat ne...eds to be feed, and your husband needs time from you EACH day. You MUST tell him what you want him to do, each day. He must be taught that the best gratification comes from you and the more he pleases and obeys you, the better or more frequent that gratification will be. But to start it has to be done with subtlety.2. Confidence: Yes you CAN learn. Emily didn't answer for a while then said, "Funny, my husband asked me that before he left for the house and I told him I was okay. I know that in the hours and days to come I have more to think about than I ever have in my life. What I've done was unimaginable to me just yesterday." She stood up and said, "Coach I'm going to take a long bath and get dressed. When I come out of the bathroom I may be able to give you a little better answer. Then I hope you can drive me to what once was my home. They show her around and get her familiar with the other women present as well as what is expected of her.She is told that she is here to pleasure the men, boys, and if she is lucky the Alpha. She sits on some pillows and ponders what she is told. Minutes later a bell rings and they all get up and rush out. She follows them slowly to a large kitchen where they are given directions and chores for a meal preparation. When all is done, they serve the meal to a room full of males of various ages. "Not bad, bro. Not much happening down here," replied Sally. "Though weare starting to put our wedding plans into action now." Well, it would make sense. You've got just over a month to go," repliedJohn. "Anyway, up here, Michelle is counting down the weeks. She can'twait to go girl full time." Who can blame her?" said Sally. "I've been told Jessica was just thesame." Well, Emma and her friends are keen to join the celebration. I was justwondering if we should treat it like a birthday party?".