That night I was in bed and still thinking about her when she came to my room, I was excited at this, then she came close to me and rested on my bed u...pside down she handed me a cream and told me to massage her , she said her back ached and she needed a good massage.I could not deny such an offer , when she lifted her shirt off her back I started rubbing her back as softly as I could , and hoping it would last longer. After a while turned around to face me and said "Why were you watching me?". I. "Um, can I have a quick look round down here?" Of course. This is the entrance hall cum withdrawing room."She snorted and then looked round. "Very attractive. Lots of books and lots of photographs. Are those your parents?" Yes and my younger brother and little sister." Your mother's beautiful." Inside and out" She looks it. Your father's not bad looking either." Yes. I inherited the good looks of both of them."That elicited a further and this time derisive snort. "What's through here?" Dining. ‘Pardon me?’ ‘My parents…both were and are life long school teachers. My sister is a school teacher as is my older brother.’ ‘Sort of like my ‘family business’.’ ‘I like teaching but I don’t know…I have offers, as I mentioned. I enjoy research but not just for the sake of research. I want to do something, create something. In my field, we agonize and study and test—but too often we never produce a ‘product’—a result that does anyone any real good.’ ‘How do you go about that?’ ‘Sell your soul,. Since the barbeque, I'd hardly had any time for a social life and no time for a mental struggle with the lady. We saw each other regularly on the job and I have to say her attitude had changed for the better. I was trying out something new for me – patience. 'Let the lady come to me' was the strategy I employed. I was polite, complimentary and more than happy with her work. She was appearing on the site more often than I expected. I was happy to have her there since she wasn't just wandering.