I learned I could go crazy over sex. James was a salesman from Dallas, big, handsome, awesome sharp, glib, charming and black. He had been flirting wi...th me for months. I enjoyed it and flirted back. It was new and different. His blackness was like a magnet for me. One day he asked if I was going home to hubby. I knew I shouldn't have but I said, "He left last night for a week of hunting in Maine."His eyes lit up and he said, "Then why don't you have dinner with me?"I knew I shouldn't do that. I told her how nice it was that she still loved me, and that I had thought of her often with love, however she was a married woman and she already had someone. As we left the restaurant, we kissed goodbye, and I began to remember those soft, warm lips on mine so many years ago, and couldn’t help remembering how much I had loved her then, and maybe I still did. We agreed that just talking now and then would be OK, but nothing else. Joann and I were very young when we were dating, and other then. We chatted for awhile and kept drinking. Eventually, the conversation turned to sex. They said they had planned to watch some porn and have a circle jerk. I told them that sounded fun and I would like to join them. I admitted that I was bisexual and they were curious. I told them when I was in my 20s, I had a friend who was gay. He convinced me that letting a gay guy suck your cock did not mean you were gay, just that you were a horny guy. After a few more beers, I agreed and that started me on. The person with the highest number goes first and gets slightly lighter blows. The first one to take their full number without screaming gets to ask another favor. If none of you make it all the way I'll choose another device and we'll go again."He selected a wide leather strap, similar to a razor strop, but not quite so thick. It would cover a lot of area with each blow, and would make a great deal of sound, but do relatively little damage.It didn't really take Brad too long to figure out.