Was this a very silly joke, or a very clever one?I was confused as we got ready to leave. “Chris, did you want to look in town?” asked Cheryl’s�...��No, no, that’s fine. We are due to meet up at Lingoria Harbour, but Craig mentioned the uninhabited island on the way, with several bays. We could stop off?”Let me explain the organisation of our boat. I was the skipper. On all sailing matters, I was in charge and people would defer to me. If there was time, people could ask questions; but we had. "Really Tubby, say if I told you that there is a transgender ladyhere among us."Tubby laughed. "Good one, you had me going. For a second I really thoughtyou were defending those people." Does it sound like I am joking Tubby. There is a transgender person atthis block party."Tubby realized from the looks of the other people in their group thatHeather was as serious as a Martin Scorsese film. He also knew that thelady was really not happy with his point of view. Even with knowing thatHeather was. Are you smart?" I'd like to think so." I responded coyly as he put the microphone to my lips."Excellent. Name a state that starts with the letter T." New York!" I exclaimed with a wide grin."Oh... Katie, too bad, that's wrong. You'll have to remove an article of clothing." He called out, addressing the crowd to a series of hoots and cheers.I smiled, quickly grabbed the mike from his hand and stated loudly, "My top is really snug. Would you mind just ripping it off of me?" I knew I wouldn't be. I just gave her what she wanted... I just helped her make a moral choice to marry the man... but I couldn't even finish that thought. Yes it was her choice and she was responsible, but... I pushed her. What's more I knew I had "power" over her. Even in the process of getting divorced I knew she wanted to do anything she could to make up for the pain she'd caused me, and I'd used that shamelessly.I certainly wasn't in any disposition to be kind or forgiving... I thought about that. It was true,.