‘D’ as everyone called me. It all started with my classroom. It had to the side a conference room used in the past for something. I used it to hav...e private conversations with some students with special problems. …A good looking guy student named Pete, had some personal problem he wanted to talk about. I took him in the conference room which had no windows. We sat down to talk. It seems that he had a big crush on me and kept getting erections in class to his embarrassment. He scooted his chair. Melanie and I were shown our room, Melanie's old bedroom. There was a new king-sized bed squeezed into it, the door would barely close. Melanie's dad took me aside and gave me a tour of the house as the caterers cleaned up after the party outside. Afterwards the five of us sat around in the spacious living room and heard the last of the caterer's trucks drive off. Melanie and I were both feeling a bit bewildered, wondering what would happen next.We sat around and chatted. The conversations. Shouldn't I be forgiving of any warping that may have resulted? The prospect of testing him was just so intriguing that I couldn't stop thinking about it, but I decided that I should take it slowly and only test for what might strengthen our marriage, not for what might further damage my opinion of him. But strengthening our marriage would mean discovering things that I wanted to discover. That meant searching my soul for what those things might be. That is I how I came to be prepared for a. The first one told me that my wife had "done it" in her words, she found a guy and had sex with him. It was just one line in a long letter about other every day stuff. The next letter I read,went into little more detail.. she met with a guy she knew from before at a bar after some drinks they had gone to the parking lot where she gave him a blowjob. They then left and he followed her to our house where he spent the night with her in our bed. She even mentioned that they had sex 7 times that.