Rub the results in, play with it. Do not act disgusted, or try to clean it up immediately. Look at him directly while you are doing this, let him know... how thankful you are for his tribute to your beauty.’ ‘7. Confidence. A woman who exudes confidence in her sexuality is a big turn on, versus one who is shy and hesitant. Being self conscious about her body (hey, almost no one is perfect) can affect the man in a very negative way. For instance, a specific woman (no one in particular in mind) who. Oh sure, I had money and a nice place to live and all that, but I didn't have the one thing all that couldn't buy. I didn't have love. I moved in with Paul, who was the only one around to take care of me. He offered his apartment and love at first. Then, after awhile I found out the truth about him. I was a naive 18-year-old spoiled rich girl back then. I didn't know people could be so devious and underhanded. Paul appeared to be a kind father figure, something I had been missing in my life,. . All the toys you and Chris and I use are things you either bought before Chris moved in or things you bought for Chris. I would like to get something that is my very own.'I hadn’t thought of that. I had unintentionally kept Carol out of our little circle of sex toys. Geeze!I looked at my watch. 'Let’s go let you pick out something for yourself.' I pointed the car toward the sex shop.Like Chris, Carol had never been to a sex shop. Again, my fault. And like Chris, once we arrived she wasn’t. ”Dan congratulated Carolyn, and Gladys, who had been with her, added her own to both of them. They were still in the friendly mode the next week. Dan, waiting with him again, abandoned politics to discuss the dreary, rainy weather and parenting. His opinion of the latter could be summed up as ‘difficult but worth it.’ When the choir members came up together, Dan latched on to Carolyn and drew her away. He started to follow, but Gladys held his arm. She drew him away from the crowd.“Look Bill,.