“He made it clear that he was willing to be a grandparent to the baby but he wasn’t going to raise another child. That meant he wouldn’t babysit... without prior arrangement; he said not to expect him to admonish the child because he would be too busy spoiling him or her. He actually gave me a hug and welcomed me to the family. He told me that his problem wasn’t with my race but with my gender but he saw that Scott was happy and that was all that was important.“We were buoyed by his reaction so we. .. it's nothing like what happened between me and Amber." You ... you don't hate me?" she said, her eyes filled with the barest spark of hope as she glanced up at me before dropping her face back towards the ground."No," I said firmly, keeping my eyes on her. I was just a little surprised that there was no argument from within me. There simply was not hate there. "Not even remotely. What you do ... who you do it with ... it's not really any of my business. Who am I to judge?" I want it to be. I have two brothers both older than me - both married ... and you Sarah ... any family?" he changed the topic from him to her, so suddenly that all she could do was sit and blink at him for a moment as her thoughts reorganised themselves; from assimilating information, to gathering together and parting with information."Yes; mum and dad both alive, both well, and together still." Any siblings?"She smiled slightly. "Yes thank you; I've two brothers..." she paused and then grinned mischievously,. I felt the place and the next day my mom said i’m going for the beautician class so be in the house , don’t go anywhere out. So shook my head and said yes. And the next min when my mom went i locked the door and immediately went to aunty’s house and asked aunty that, what is that you was about to say yesterday ah! So aunty said me too wait in the room and she will bring coffee for us both and then we will talk about it. So i said ok and went inside the room and waiting for her coffee. After few.