Icould feel tears begin to well up and said, "Ben i was going to tellyou. I've felt like a girl all my life but I've kept it secret fromeveryone. It's... not easy to tell everyone you want to be a girl, buti've come out to my family and they accept me being transgender."I'm becoming Ashley and I'm going to go through transition and startliving as a girl fulltime. I'm sorry Ben but I have to do this, I haveto become a girl." I just looked down, holding my purse in my hands astears fell down my. After I retired from the business world we decided to move closer to my daughter's family and four grandc***dren. We built a house on a two acre wooded lot in the Midwest as we enjoyed the four seasons and wildlife. Our property was very private as it was surrounded by trees and backed up to wetlands. The house was bigger than we needed but it was designed so that we would live on the first level and the lower walkout level was for entertaining and the grandc***dren. The lower level had three. Each bra wasnot folded but neatly placed with obvious care one after the other withthe front facing towards me so I could see the color and pattern on eachbra. Each bra had its cups carefully nestled together with the bra cup infront of it. All in a neat row. And color coordinated. And sorted bytype. Prints on one side, solids on the other. Lacey, satiny specialoccasion ones in a drawer by themselves while my everyday plain bras wereplaced in another. My camis, nighties were all similarly. She had good plan for her marriage which spoiled. She didn’t have any affair before marriage. But after she came to know that her husband had an affair with a girl.He didn’t keep a good relation with her. One day I asked her what she feels about me. She told me that she likes my Smile, the way I talk to her& everything. She Asked me. I told the way she says hm hm. She smiles & all these things. Conversation continues for few more days. One day I asked her again what does she feels about me. She.