"I just spoke to her explained, she wasn't happy but I asked her to keepquiet for the night and speak to Mum about it." And did she?" Yeah," I replied... as I lit a cigarette."So how come, you stayed over?" she asked."Well Dad got George drinking and I wouldn't let him drive so we had tostay with Aunt Karen." So she had plenty room then." "Eh well yes and no," I said hesitating slightly."So where did you all sleep?" Well she had a spare camp bed so Melissa slept there me and George hadto share.". I don't know why this time I feel I can't tell my wife about this since we are swingers and opened minded... maybe later.Ok, the story begins like this: we usually get together with other two couple (neighbors) to chat, eat dinner and have some drinks on Saturday nights. Well, this last Saturday (aug25,18) everything was the same, we had some extra drinks and my neighbor (the host, he is 60) felt very dizzy, tired and went to sleep, while the other couple, my wife and I stayed dancing and. “Gareth lad, you’re trying to carry too many at once. If your load is higher than the edge of the barrow some may fall off and get chipped. The other thing is that you’ll find five lighter loads are easier than four really heavy ones. You’ll be able to move quicker and so the brickies will still have enough to work with but you won’t shatter yourself.”Gareth nodded silently and did as he was told. Tom was right. He did find it easier.All the same it was a menial, thoughtless although important. ‘At best, she’s ‘bi’. At worst, at least from my point of view, she’s straight, but got messed up because of…….’ ‘Please, don’t go into that!’ interposed Susan sharply. Heidi gave her a look, then relaxed. ‘Sure. But he has a right to know where we are coming from. Susan has had her problems with men, as you, I understand, had problems with women! Your heterosexuality seems pretty intact, if I may say so!’ ‘Strange you should say that,’ I said. ‘I guess my divorce threw me back quite a bit. I.