Your partner needs to REALLY accept it for what it is. So we grew apart. I continued my experiments. Met a wonderful woman, I was 21 at the time and s...he was 42 and married. She was living a similar story, but sleeping next to a man who really didn't want to understand. Thinking about what a nightmare it would have been if I didn't continue to pursue my sexuality at this age was put on display. Stuck in a marriage, and trapped in sex you don't fully enjoy. I had a new found appreciation for. The next two days were repeats. Phyllis said almost nothing, just let Arlene watch. However, she watched Arlene very carefully on the floor of the club. Fortunately, Arlene had never reacted much to the various men when she encountered them. Since she was at a different time than her usual daytime visits, they were not men that she saw regularly, so they did not notice anything strange about her reactions. Her reactions were actually very normal, to Phyllis's great relief.On the fourth day,. "I don't know about you two, but I'm hungry," said Diane. "What kind of groceries did you buy today, Aaron?" The kind that gets ruined sitting out in the sun in the back of my truck, like they have been since I got home. You two didn't give me time to bring them in before you dropped the bomb on me." Oops, I guess that means that we'll have to go out to eat. And before I go out I need to clean up. How about helping me with a shower, Justine?" Do you really need help, Diane?" Of course not, but. Additionally, a subcontractor ripped up a geothermal installation on a private residential project we had running. Since it was intended to be a showpiece for expansion into that market, I was called to a site meeting after lunch. As usual every man and his dog turned up. While everyone was getting their two penn'oth in, I took the manufacturers rep to the side."Tell me about it?" Clear back about six feet either side of the damage, and joint in new pipe." Is it a big job?" About two minutes.