The shower was to be 15 minutes and afterwards we were supposed to put on our bra & panty set and red high heels. If you have an issue with this yo...u need to leave now. I looked at Mercedes and she looked at me and I know we were both thinking ‘well at least she looks good’. We walked toward the bathroom that was indicated for #11 & #12. I turned the water on and took the deepest breath I could and slipped out of my black dress, Mercedes did the same and we both stood there for a moment. “Have you thought about college?” “Yeah,” I grabbed my cup back. “I will be attending the same college you.”“Really?” He raised his eye brows with interest. “You know the freshman girls are referred to as 'fresh meat'.” “What?” I laughed.“Are you 'fresh meat'?” He leaned over and smirked at me. “Jason you're gross,” I slapped his arm playfully. “I'm just saying, I could help you acclimate yourself to the whole college experience.” He scooted closer. “And you would do that how?” I cocked my head. You are not a burden you are a blessing and we will be very happy if you accept what we can offer," Joe confirmed.Alice later related to us what Joe and Isa had said and told us that this led to another bout of hugging and kissing. Alice said that she was overwhelmed by their kindness and concern. We said we knew this would be their reaction and told her we were pleased that she seemed to accept what was being offered."I not only accept it I am flabbergasted by it. When all of you said you. Another thing I notice was the only white people on the dance floor were the women. They of course were only dancing with the black men.When the white women were not dancing they were entertaining black men in front of their spouses.I go to sit down but Cheryl told me not there. She picked a spot a little more private.I order us our drinks. Sure enough a couple of black guys came over to dance with my wife. She told those two no. I looked at her and whispered “average shoes”? And she nodded.