We have a lot of friends from church and get together on weekends for barbeques and other social events. Some of our best married friends are Mindy an...d Jim, and we have known them since before elementary school. They're in the same situation as Dave and me, with Jim working a partial shift at the plant, and Mindy had been laid off from her bookkeeping job at the plant.We hadn't seen them for several weeks, but then we met up at a church barbecue one Saturday. As you can imagine, the. I stepped out of my car so the driver or drivers could see I was basically a non-threatening older white guy with empty hands. The sound of the approaching lights informed me that this was a gaggle of motorcycles making fast time on the empty highway. Fortunately, I was skylined against the foothills and I felt certain they saw me from some distance. I had a little ball of fear in the pit of my stomach thinking I was about to be a victim of some outlaw biker gang and buried in an unmarked grave. ”“Let’s sit in the lobby and wait for Elaine.”A young Asian woman approached them. “Darren? Marcia? I’m Elaine Wu.”“We’ve spoken,” Marcia replied.“Yes -- I’m delighted to meet you in person. Shall we go visit the data center?” She escorted them to an awaiting stretch limousine. “You were smart to schedule this visit to coincide with our annual users’ conference. You’ll get to meet some of our major customers...”The limousine stopped by the hotel entrance. Elaine escorted Darren and Marcia into. Then I found a new problem. Louise’s father sent me a prenup that basically raped me if we divorced. I went to a lawyer and had him make two different documents. One of them was as one-sided in my favor as the one they sent me. The other was as fair as I could make it. The fair one protected Louise’s family funds and my assets, mainly my house, business, tools, and savings. The fair prenup also specified that except for adultery or spousal abuse, if a divorce occurred, both parties would split.