While I was thinking of the what, the question of why jumped at me. I think the answer lay in how I was feeling now, it was that same feeling I had si...nce entering the house on Friday night. The way they all joked with me, how they had taken both me and Diane under their wings, made me feel so welcome. There was also an unspoken message that said if you need us, we are here. I saw that when Matt and Andy had sat with me at the club last week. I also saw it in how they treated Cara and Rachel.. ”He took a step to walk around the table to where I was standing. I beat him to the punch and met him at the head of the table. It was at that moment, he realized the height difference. I made sure that I was only an inch or two from him so that way he was forced to lift his head up to look at me.“As I said there is a tax to occupy space at this table. So, either pay up or get moving. I’m not going to wait all day.”He took a minute, and finally walked off. While I really didn’t want to start a. Women naturally are able to put aside a dalliance, nature has imbued them with such ability, so that they remain bent on allying themselves with a man who will provide for them and their children despite whomever might be the man who happened to provide the seed. Harriet put aside the dalliance and continued on the path nature intended; find a husband.With this profound understanding, my thought turned back to the ring's power. If I was correct, such dalliance would have little prolonged effect. 'It was nice holding you as well dear, but I need to use the bathroom, shower and start supper, ' I replied.'Popi I do supper, that is my job and I must do it or you'll not want me no more, ' she said with mock seriousness.Playing her game, I said 'Well, that's true, you do have to pull you weight here and you haven't done much of your work the last two days. You've just laid in bed or the hammock; maybe the job is too much for a little girl like you. I should look for a real woman to help me.