Perhaps that is what has been going on in my life. Men have controlled me and, as such, dictated how and when I do things and with whom. But, is the a...lternative to simply have to fight against my personality in all situations? So, where was he heading with this? So, I probed a little more directly. “If I am a submissive by nature, wouldn’t I want a dominant to control me?” He looked at me for a long time, or at least it seemed like a long time because his eyes were off the road ahead for that. "Are you ready to shoot again?" Ari asked Troy. Troy nodded. "Are youinterested in trying something more intense? You've got a really hot spotin your hole here. I'd love to give it a workout. " Troy nodded again. Ididn't expect Ari to be so direct, and knew he was uncomfortable with analsex. Ari was afraid he would hurt his partner. Billy must have told Arimore about Troy's sexual interests than Ari had told me. Ari had said we'dneed additional lube.I lubricated Ari's cock while he lubed the. As we were getting naked he started yelling and kicking, getting angry, even worse as we rubbed eachother hard. We each got on one side of the bed, and told him, we were going to make his life mesreble if he struggled, but if he just calmed down and went with it, it would go a lot smoother. So we gave him 5 minutes and he was calmed down, and we could talk to him and start the process of making him gay.We started the process by tellin him, if he could go through a 10 minute blowjob without. .it felt good, I stood there for a moment in the bar's beer garden, no one was a round, I didn't care if anyone noticed my bare ass as the breeze continued to blow. I felt a warm body behind me and I moved forward and turned around, it was Lola, good old Lola, still watching me! She looked so sexy with her hair down, I went up to her and brushed her hair from her forehead...Lola held my hand and kissed it tenderly, she lead me to sit on one of the garden tables, I smelt the raw earth around us.