We used to chat for hours about everything and started to build a connection. Jen told me she was a young mum and 3 years younger than me, she lost he...r virginity on a one night stand and 9 months later had to bring a c***d into the world. I also had a c***d young so we had loads in common apart from Jen lived with her parents and I had my own place.We spoke for weeks and then agreed to meet for a drink with the condition I had to pick her up and meet her father first. Like a true gent I agreed. It wasn't until he brought it up in the office that I would be making $9.00 an hour!. I hadn't even asked!After month, things were pretty routine, Ron the owner was there most of the time. Ron liked to make embarrassing comments about my shorts, or skinny legs or anything that he could make slightly sexual. The members were mostly men, so I got used to they way they treated me. Stares, flirting, odd questions just to ask questions I think. It was intimidating, but also kinda flattering. . " Well, take a look at this." I said showing him the urban dictionarywebpage."Ok. I am a poof." He replied."Another definition of a poof" I said, holding up one of my black bras anda pair of matching panties. " is an effeminate man. So put these on ifyou have the balls to prove you are not a hypocrite."I knew I had got him when he took his clothes off and I would exploit hisinsecurity about his masculinity mercilessly."Not so fast. Effeminate men take time to shave or wax all of their. They were okay, but we couldn’t start a fire together. My sister's husband was off in a desert shooting at desert a****ls, the two legged kind. Before he left he knocked Paula up and hopefully he'd be back before the fruits of his labor were borne. Since my sister and I were for the time both single, we spent a lot of time together. In fact I had a dinner date with my older sibling later that same day.“I can't drink alcohol, if the baby got drunk it would kick the piss out of my bladder.”“Then.