"Because it's my game, I get to speak freely. Once you stop the game, we can't start it up again the same day. Sound fair?" I ... I guess that's fai...r. And all I have to do is say 'stop' and you'll stop?" Any word at all. Even if it's 'yes'." Steph pauses to let that sink in. "Be very careful, Jill. If I ask you questions, nod or shake your head for yes and no."She studies my face with her deadly kryptonite eyes. I nod. I'm not sure if we've started yet, but I'm not willing to take the. 'Her' space was completely enclosed in a 10' high ivy covered brick wall that afforded her all the privacy she 'deserved'. It even had it's own private small pool and hot tub, sunning area, and flower gardens, complete with statuary and a koi pond full of $1000 dollar fish. Inside, it even had a custom made area for her home gym. At about 2400 square feet, she could pamper herself in her quarters for hours on end....uninterrupted. Now this beautiful oasis was yours...a gift to my favorite chef. The girls seemed to really be into the male sexual model he had and the guys either dismissed the whole idea of using a condom or actually paid some attention to what he told them. Rob showed how to properly keep a condom to ensure it was still usable and reliable whenever the time came to pull it out of the foil pouch and use it, and also how to properly handle it to kept the lubricated ones as slippery and lubed up as possible. Rob demonstrated everything from tearing open the foil container. If you starve a person for 3 days and put a steak in from of him and tell him not to eat it, what do you think happens? As much as YOU want sexual satisfaction from the relationship, remember he does too. After a night out, do you go home and a... take care of business? I assume you do. Don't you think he's doing the same thing? If you both truly care about each other, what sense does that make?" I AM still a virgin. Yet, I rarely even wear panties when I go out with Bill. If we have any alone.