I felt not only the ring stopping me, but a hand squeezing me at my base. I felt the pressure building and the slight pain caused by the buildup. She... slowly pulled up off of me, as he met the cold air I cringed wanting to be back in the warmth of her mouth. I felt movement and then was greeted with a wet slit on my head, she ran him up and down her damp lips. I groaned and tried to push up into her. Hands kept me from moving my hips as well as the weight of the woman straddling me and pleasing. It's possible he or she isn't ready for that level of intimacy yet, but with time and effort, your lover might change his or her mind. Let your partner watch you masturbate with a sex toy. It may cause some giggles at first, but it might also break the ice and relieve your embarrassed partner of any squeamish thoughts about sex toys. You might also try buying a book or watching a video together - your partner might be embarrassed to admit he or she doesn't know how sex toys work;. " Okay." I had something happen that really confused me." And that was?" You know Tiff on the swim team?" Tiffany, sure." She's a lesbian."I turned, looked at Kate, and said, "A lesbian?" Yeah, and . . . and she came on to me." She did?" Yes, and I accepted her advances."I just sat there and looked at her for a long time. Then Isaid, "And the two of you did . . . ?"Tears started as she just nodded her head yes."So," I asked, "you tossed away everything we had for her?"She looked at me and. Her name is Mia. She is 23 years old 5’3” tall. She has long dark brown hair and the most beautiful blue eyes I have ever seen. She has a gorgeous smile. It’s not busy and we get to talking about school and work and dating. She is single with no steady boyfriend. He dumped her to go with a girl who was a little looser. She is still a virgin, just waiting for the right guy. Maybe I have a shot here, she seems interested. I have a couple of beers and it gets busy so I go home and dream about her..