We were having issues and rather than letting them fester and arguing all the time, we decided to get counseling from a colleague who knew both of us.... The result was that she suggested that we both needed to give some and that we should decide how we wanted to settle disagreements. My last remark was:’ my wife needs a spanking, in fact lots of them to make up for lost time.’ I never thought anything about it till we both got home. That evening a young man’s voice on the phone told us he had. They instructed me about certain rules I had to follow inside to which i tried listening for sometime but then every thing went blur. I was more interested to get in and see for myself. As soon as I went in I saw a few couples and some singles just walking around the room getting themselves introduced. There was some theme to this party so few people were wearing masks, well i figured it was most of the couples there who did. the singles were just roaming around with a drink in their hand. " I want. When do you want to do this?" I can run over, dig up my scissors, and come back. Go in, and wash your hair first." No, the girl who cuts my hair always washes my hair first. We can jump in the shower before you cut my hair." Or I can use the sink like the other girl does," she said, as she scooted through the door.Adam said, "If she goes the shower route, then maybe I'll use her to cut my hair in the future."Everyone looked to Tess to see what her reaction would be. She just smiled,. In the back of my mind I sensed they were a gay couple but in those days gay couples of that generation kept to themselves and lived as “room mates” and were not open about their orientation or living arrangements. I just figured they were a monogamous couple, quiet and nice, and left it at that.Being 23, blond, in super shape and tanned from running distances on the beaches I was quite a target for the older crowd but being shy I faded away from most hook ups and stayed to myself. Bill and.