Theriding club had only two women; well now three, though I hadn't beenon a trip in over three months. I considered how to help her, but myappearance ...had been markedly altered by the hair weave."Sheila, I have transitioned, I now live my life as a woman. Severalmonths ago I made a resolution, I was becoming a girl," I pausedseeing was about to say something. She seemed to have relaxed, a bit,and I saw her shoulders dropped."Sheila, I'm sorry, this has surprised you," I said, as I spokequickly,. She told me no and I asked if I needed to be on the lookout for a jealous boyfriend and she told me no. I told her I didn't believe that a sexy lady like her didn't have a boyfriend and she told me that they had broken up a couple of weeks ago."He wanted to get married and I told him I wasn't ready so he split."I took one look at her naked body and decided that the man was a fool. He should have hung in there until she was ready. If she wasn't six years older than me I might have tried to latch. It's strange, like it's in ribbons of black and grey, almost white. First time, he just popped out of a thunderstorm. That is, I was dreaming and this big storm came up, and then I was standin' next to the creek and this person ... old man, I guess, in buckskins and paint ... he kinda came out of thin air and stood there, and held out his hand like a greeting. Then he disappeared."Well, I kinda figured, later, that was just some weird dream 'cause we moved here and I been reading about the. I felt so sorry that I had upset him, I spoke to him through the door, apologising for getting angry and asked him to come out and we could talk. I did genuinely like him but not sexually and tried to tell him. After ten minutes, Sam opened the door. I wrapped an arm round his shoulders and led him into the bedroom where his normal clothes were on the floor. He hugged against me sobbing he said he had planned to lose his virginity on his birthday, and that he found making friends difficult..