We of course were supposed to spit out what we tasted. We were to nibble on a crumb of baguette before tasting the next glass and then spit it out aga...in. But hey, those were great wines.They got even better as the evening wore on. To boil the whole thing down to its essence, I was rather buzzed when the clock neared eleven. And so were quite a few of our lady guests.Alec was marvelous.He never stopped amusing us with jokes and anecdotes. He dropped names and warmed us with stories of far away. "My heart was fit to burst. "Oh yes," I sighed.She took my hand and we went upstairs to our bedroom, "What would youlike to try?" She said opening her underwear cupboard.I rooted through picking out stockings, garter belts, knickers and bras,my hands trembling with excitement. Kate started to undress me andhelped me into her underwear, as I was all fingers and thumbs. On wentthe garter belt, she showed me how to put on stockings by doing thefirst one, I put the other one on, next came knickers. I mean really... I am far from perfect myself.Once in the show, we started drinking. The band was awesome and we were rocking out and all seemed better. Then she says to me...."I want to suck your dick here, where can we go?" I was shocked... My first instinct was the bathroom. We tried the mens room first, but there was an attendant there, and he wasn't having any of that action. The line to women's room was way to long. Shit! Thought I was out of luck, suggested we go out to the car. She. She acts like she owns me now. Whatever I say, she tells me I can't do that. She wants to make all my decisions now." Emily, no one is forcing you to obey her. I keep saying you have to stand up to her. This other role you play with her, when the two of you are together in bed, I can understand why you might want to do that. Joyce likes me to treat her a certain way in bed too, but she wouldn't like it if I tried doing it that way for any of the other parts of our relationship. You should stand.