Don’t cry it’s going to be okay.”“It hurts. It just hurts so bad.”“I know it hurts but it’s going to be okay. Really just be patient it ...will happen.”My poor sister was in anguish. She just found out it wasn’t possible for her to get pregnant. She had seen four different doctors and each of them had told her she wasn’t able to conceive. It was tragic and she could barely take the news. She had seen several of these doctors over the course of the last three years and the fourth one had finally. Just increase the tension," she said."Yeah. Yeah, you could be right. But that's just the way it is ... Used to be, my Dad told me, even the radio and TV guys, covering the game!... They wouldn't say anything! Everybody -- even outsiders like that -- was afraid of being the one who brought it down. But that was kind of nutty, Dad told me, because, if the announcers didn't tell their audience, well then, how could they even know about it? How could they begin to share in the ... the suspense?". She initially treated me as a piece of dirt and looked at me as if i was mad … then she actually started reasoning saying that she would get pregnant. I laughed it off and said, if that were the case, i would have been a father by now. She then sat up and asked me how many time i have had sex. I told her that i had just once till that day, with my girlfriend and it was an experience close to my heart. She wanted to know more. But i told her that it would be better if she allowed me to let her. She stood up pulling a bit of a face, then laughed, she said she didn't really like the taste but she had to swallow so her parents didn't find a mess on their doorstep! Needless to say I didn't complain! We exchanged phone numbers and I left.We organised to meet again for a night out a couple of days later, went for a meal, and to a few bars. As the night wore on I decided to push my luck and ask her back to mine. I was happy she accepted and still wondered whether she really did think it was.