Try to make him understand. The third ring. I must answer the phone or he'll think I'm not here. I've got to make him understand it meant nothing."Hel...lo." Turn the lights off." Who is this?" I knew who it was. I recognized Randy's voice."Mrs. Hiller, turn off the lights so your neighbor won't see me. I'm coming to see you." NO! YOU'RE NOT!" I screamed into the phone."Turn the light off Mrs. Hiller. It's important that I speak to you."I slammed the receiver down, enraged, frightened, and shaken.. In the evening its got a bit of a reputation as being a dogging and cruising site so I thought let's find out. There is a large mobile snack bar on the site so you'll always have a legitimate reason for being there. I parked up and got a cup of coffee. I sat on one of the benches and lit up a cigarette. A few minutes later a guy walked past and said hello, I nodded and said alright. He bought a drink and came over and asked me if I had a lighter. I gave him a light and he said do you mind if I. "Sorry bud, first date...", we continue on.I joke with her and ask, "So, are you dating me because I'm not threatning? are you a lesbo Katie?", I giggle and continue to walk with herShe suddenly stops, her face is red... "Don't be an asshole Allen, first of all lesbians arn't "lesbos", and secondly, DO NOT ask your date if she's gay! are you an idiot!?", I hit a nerve, she seems very worked up..."Oh...ummm.... Sorry Katie, I just... i was just kidding. You know, I'm a bit nervious. I've. Our eyes met, and in that instant I felt as if I was floating. Kim? he asked as I got closer. Gary? was my reply. Yes he said as he reached to hand me an assortment of nice flowers. He handed them to me in my left hand, reached out for my right hand to shake it, as our hands touched, he ever so gently with all the gentlemanly skills he had leaned in for a little greeting peck on my cheek. Of course I returned the gesture. Very nice to meet you he said. And I do have to say, you look amazing.