Unify your identity or you and I are history." How do you mean?" I mean, make a commitment. Visual, verbal, behavioral. This in-betweenthing is wrong ...for you, wrong for your co-workers and wrong for me. Hell,do I have a boyfriend or a girlfriend? I don't even know what to tellpeople," said Alli."I'm not giving up the boobs. I love them too much." I love them too. So that leaves you one choice if we're going to staytogether. At the very least, you will have to present fully as female,all the. I quickly agreed with a feverish “Of course you do Hun. You are a very beautiful girl.” I did not know where this was going however I knew one thing for sure: more mojitos would help my cause along. I got up from the beach lounge and announced I would return with more Mojitos and she looked at me and raised her glasses. With a temptress look in her eye and a soft voice she said “Hurry back”. At this point I was a little confused, but knew things were headed in the right direction. Again, I. Where little boys go to play, thinking themselves men. Nor is he some halfwit reciting poetry trying to impress me in his failed attempts at wit and charm. He is just a man making conversation, enjoying the company of a woman. A lost skill set in men now a days if you ask me.Finally, he asks the question, the one all men get to eventually. Maybe it’s the manor of his delivery, or the tone of his voice. My mouth fails to utter my usual response. Instead I feel my lips moisten with a quick. So I left him a message.It was quite a curt message, to be honest – just that we should meet at our offices at 8:30 next morning, have an hour with the team prior to heading over to the hotel conference room that we'd eventually agreed as a venue. Then I bought myself a bottle of decent wine and, home, began to chase up our American friends ... and review yet again tactics for the coming encounter...[Dave]Monday morning I felt a lot better, the enforced day of rest having done my physical scars.