Happy home apart had I not! What I did this evening was give your mother a heads up to what Frank was planning. Put her in the driving seat, so to spe...ak. She now has the opportunity to keep her eyes on the family bank accounts and financial situation, before Frank's had a chance to move a lot of cash around." You think he'd leave her destitute?" No not really, the courts wouldn't let him get away with that. After all, he's always insisted that you mother hasn't had a job; better to control her. . that kept us out of the city limits ... be it back roads, trails or no road at all. (No road at all was the abandoned railroad ... that I remember distinctly but no one else does. I think Mother was in denial about the Rail Road track ... the bridge was terrifying.)The first time we visited 'the family' it was in a ten year old 1939 Ford Two Door Sedan and we did it like I said ... St. Johns, Grand Rapids, Pentwater. This disaster included Muskegon. It took longer to get from Grand Rapids to. They don’t try to hide any of it too hard, knowing that what we really want in a Fulbright scholar is someone from influence who is going to return to influence, plus having been Americanized and grateful to Uncle Sam. I can’t fault them much. For a student in the Middle East to be competitive for a Fulbright scholarship, money-financed preparation is a given need. I don’t think they realize that at home. There aren’t too many poor people getting into national universities in the region and. Maybe we could go out for lunch or an early dinner afterwards,” she said standing in front of me with a big smile on her face.“Yea that sounds cool. We should get our showers and head out,” I said.“Can we get one together?” she asked.“Are you sure you really want to?” I asked concerned about where it might lead.“Oh yea, dad, I am sure. I would love to take a shower with you,” she said smiling.So, off we went to the bathroom. I brushed my teeth while Lynn got the shower water ready. She got in.