I thought I might as well enjoy it. After some thirty minutes of fun. He slowly asked me if I had tried group. When I said yes a few times. He opened ...up saying he wanted to try group with his wife and her sister his wife’s elder sister had a broken marriage and was around 40 yo and living with him. She had the hots for him and his wife was also aware of it. He wanted me to start of on the elder sister and than he and his wife will join us, he had already spoken about this to his wife and she. . his left ... not your left. You may consult each other. The moms will supply any needed materials or apparatus."I followed my father to the hall.As soon as the door was closed he spun on me and raised his hand to strike. I looked him straight in the eye."Go ahead, I hold the watch."He looked at me and stilled his hand."You gave ... no ... ordered me to this task. I was ready to sit with you and mom in friendly discourse, but no, you had to make a circus out of it ... LIKE YOU HAVE DONE SINCE. “Okay, I get that. You have made your feelings known. Now is there a threat that goes with that?”“Yeah, it’s better to happen now than later, so I brought you a video to watch tonight. I was seventeen when this was made. If you are going to have a problem. lets get it out now.” he said.“Do you want me to watch this?” I asked.“Not right now necessarily, but before you and the family enter into anything like a partnership,” Earl said.“This is awfully mysterious,” I said.“Just watch it. You’ll get. Then I won the lottery. You never know how many long lost friends and relatives you have until then. I tried to go back to where the kids were. It didn't work. Everyone constantly hounded me... except my kids. They still loved me but didn't have time for me. I moved close to them but they were always busy with their friends and other activities.I was miserable except when I was with them and that wasn't that often. So I made the decision to move back to New Mexico. I could fly them to me when.